Husband and in-laws forcing me ask for money from my father or divorce

I am 25 Years old girl, I was married on 28 Feb'17, its love marriage, my parents support us for this, but his parents is not ready, we decide we will convince them after marriage, but after marriage his parents totally pressure the boy and me to separate but when we say we are not, they will say do arrange marriage as per them spiritual, they need 20-25 lakh for that, but my father are not able to give because of his financial condition is not so good, my father ready to give 4 lakh but they want full money. now the boy also pressure me to separate or take money from your father any how, I am totally mentally tortured by him, in 30 days marriage he forcing me to go home and ask for money and he fighting all the time, and crying and saying me his parents will be dead if we not arrange money etc.. I already described him and his sister that my father condition is not good, he cant do that. but now he said to me please mutual understating se alag ho jate hai. my life is spoiled