My girlfriend is threatening me to kill herself what to do

674 votes

Immediately file criminal complaint against her, through we may anticipate some reactions on the same but it is very important to save guard yourself
mention all the facts for your traumatic relationship since the last 2 years. or you can also file civil case of injunction against her
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Advocate Kunal Madan LawRato

618 votes

Hello sir! This is a serious issue if she commits any such act and laeve your name in the note police may arrest u under section 306 of IPC whose punishment may extend to 10years . In that event I advice you to Inform local SHO of the P.S . and inform him through an application stating that this girl is having suicidal tendencies and you should not be held responsible in case such a thing happens. Inform the same to her parents and also to make her to attend counselling.

Advocate Kuldeep Rai LawRato

691 votes

So far as what I can understand from your story, your so called girlfriend just does not want you to live peacefully and is hell bent on making your life a hell. These threats are nothing but a planned and thought out drama to keep you forcefully tied to her wishes and demands. She wants you to live like her puppet. Threats of killing herself are nothing but expression of her sinister and evil intentions of not allowing you to move ahead in life. If she had any love and respect for you, she would have gracefully accepted break up and moved on. But she didn't. She won't shy away from dragging your family into trouble.

In whatever way she threatens you be it on phone, in person, through inbox messages on Email, Facebook, SMS or WhatsApp, record and save those conversations. If you have not deleted the previous data of the said conversations, well and good, but if you have, then please make sure that whatever she speaks or sends now, you record/save that. Technology and social media is an effective way to expose and counter threats and lies. You can't keep on fighting this ugly battle all alone. I understand that you love and care for your family. Take them into confidence. Recall as many instances as you can of the times when she misbehaved and threatened you, write them on paper. Also add your interactions with her through phone, emails, Facebook, whatsapp. That will help in building evidence that it is you who is on the receiving end. Generally, the mindset of the society and police is such that they tend to believe what woman says. But once you have enough proofs and evidences, that will be your weapons to nail her. But in the first place, try and not to drag police into it and resolve the matter with the help of your family.

LawRato LawRato

694 votes

Hi Sir

I can completely understand the stress and trauma that you are undergoing. It appears that she is mentally upset over breaking up with you and feels emotionally insecure and vulnerable. At first, you should consider taking her for psychiatric treatment. At the same time, in order to protect yourself and your family I think you should consider filing a complaint with the local police authorities. You should also consider informing the State and the National Commission for Women that you are going through this. This preemptive action may protect you from suffering any harm in the future in case she takes any step. We can help you and your family draft the complaints and also help you file the complaint. We are also happy to discuss this with you face to face as we understand the sensitivity and also the pressure you are going through.

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Sanjeet

Advocate Sanjeet Kumar Thakur LawRato

800 votes

Things have turned serious and you may really come in trouble if your gf commits suicide and leaves suicide letter against you. You are urgently required to normalize the things and avoid any direct confrontation. Hope gradually she would realise the matter. For safer side, you may also opt for writing your miseries to authorities as an intimidation which would help you in future, if any untowards incidents happens in future. For detailed discussions you may contact me.

Advocate Pankaj Kumar LawRato