Non Ex-servicemen meaning & eligible benefits

I served 6 years 2months in Indian Army from 2001 to 2007. When I was serving in J&K state I lost my father. I was unable to attend his funeral rights also. Then I was applied for discharge on my own request on compassionate grounds and came out from Army with discharge book. But my status was written as Non Ex-Servicemen. Now my question is, "may I get any benefit(Age relaxation) in re employment in civil services or not? Is there any supported GO? "Officers who are boarded out from training academy's are treated as Exsm only for reemployment in civil services. May I get the benefit or not?