Advocate Koller BT

Questions Answered by Advocate Koller BT

Q: Husband asking for divorce without any alimony

We both r married for 2.8yrs now. For both of us its a second marriage. My husband use to control me for everything. Verbally abuse me if things r not according to him. Slowly he started accusing me of having affair with colleagues n my past life. I have son. Due to this I was into depression and he calls me as mad/psycho. Frm 1 yr we r living separately n he has not visited da baby too. Now he is asking for divorce on mutual consent without any alimony. I want him to attend couple counselling but he us not ready. I checked with psychiatrist, said he is suffering frm paranoid personality

Advocate Koller BT answered
Hello.Your husband can not leave you like that.. You issue legal notice for restitution of conjugal rights by giving him 15 days time. Because you have a child whose responsibility both of you have to take..In the meanwhile things May change and both of you join together for the shake if your child who should not suffer for no fault his..

Q: Can the reason for Divorce be Minor issues causing stress and hatred?

I was a very cheerful person. Post wedding the small things like restrictions on freedom/money, suspicion, show off and continuous nagging has caused me to be stressed always. It feels like every act of love is just an eye wash. There are times when i am told I am loved, but the acts dont always show that. I feel i have no space. I cannot make independent decisions to shop, to spend money or time with my family, to go out with my friends. I now am a suspicious person. I draw comparision all the time and am no more happy at any given time. I dont want my child to grow seeing us fight everytime.

Advocate Koller BT answered
HelloSince the family is the basic institution of our society, the Act provides for certain grounds and in your case the facts amounting to cruelty and this is also a ground for divorce. The Supreme Court clearly stated that where the marriage has been broken down to the extent that the can't be reconciled in any manner the court ought to grant decree of divorce. .

Q: Husband forcing me to tell a lie in high court that we stayed together

Hi sir, my husband applied for quashing (498A) in high court by mean of Reunion with me and our baby. I cooperated with him. High court judge advised us that we should live together with our baby for 2 months, After that case will be automatically closed. My husband and his lawyer accepted judge words.now, 3 months are over. My husband didn't take me back till now. Now he is forcing me to tell a lie in high court that we lived together in false address to close the case.I don't know why my husband doing this..I don't know what I have to do next.. Please help me sir.

Advocate Koller BT answered
HelloPlease do not tell lie in the high Court as your husband may not take you back to the matrimonial house. . In all probability he just wanted to get ride of criminal cases. Therefore you please see his real intentions first & then move ahead..

Q: Brought a property but private land owner is threatening to vacate

Dear Lawyers, I purchased a constructed house in bangalore,measurement of 30x40(1200 Sqft) under home loan category and its in Gram panchyat limits.West by Road,East by house, South by empty site,North by Private property.Now,the owner of private property,they are making layout.They have come and saying my house is constructed 80Sqft(North side) extra in their property and again & again their people threaten me that they will demolish the compound. I spoke to builder whose sold me the house, he says they have not taken extra.im worried.Please help or suggest me how to proceed. Thank you.

Advocate Koller BT answered
Hello.You have to file a suit for injunction before the competent court with all the relevant documents making all the people who are interfering or disturbing you as parties and establish your possessionThanks