Advocate Dileep N

Questions Answered by Advocate Dileep N

Q: Husband having affairs what action can I take

If husband bringing prostitutes at home in wife absence and also maintaining physical relation with other women.wife has all proof phone record,social site chat etc.does punishment exist for such husband who damage girl life.please suggest.thanks

Advocate Dileep N answered
As far as bringing the husband into the radar of Adultery, a complaint must be filed by a husband of a women with whom your husband having sexual relationship and the punishment prescribed is 5 years imprisonment. As far as divorce is concerned the allegations and the proof you said is sufficient enough to get divorce.

Q: Father Willed property to me and my brother consent of children needed

My father has executed a will on transfer of house property(self-earned) in the name of 2 sons after his death. Now he has expired and there is a dispute in sharing of the house property between the sons. One of the son is proposing to sell the property and share the sold value on 50-50 basis. The elder son(me) is having 2 sons and younger son is having one daughter. Now the question is, for selling of house property, does the written consent of grandchildren are/is required? It is to inform that all 3 grandchildren are above 18 years of age.

Advocate Dileep N answered
As far as the property you get through WILL be considered as your self acquired property and you can dispose of the property the way you want and for the said disposition you need not get your children consent. Same principle will apply in your brother case too. If the purchaser insist, hope nothing will impediment for you both to get your children witness to the instrument/deed as consenting witnesses.

Q: Girl parents threatening to kill us or commit suicide what to do

I am 34 years old and she is 28 years old. We are in a relationship for past 8 years. Her parents are not agreeing to it. They are threatening to kill us or they will commit suicide. What action can i take in this situation?

Advocate Dileep N answered
It is purely personal issue please do get advise from your parents before the thing get worse. If you are able to convince your parents about your relationship with that girl, marriage would be the better option. Have a bright future.

Q: Husband and in laws harrasing me to leave job or give divorce

Im a working professional and got married to a working professional in the year 2013 but from then they are asking me to leave my or creating such situations which leads to quit my job.After 6 months of marriage he left me for 1 year for the same reason but I did not quit my job and later he came to a compromise for me to continue my job.Again now he created another unfavourable condition for me to leave my job.He was working with a good package and now he left his job and going to his village and asking me to leave my job and go along with him or give divorce.

Advocate Dileep N answered
You know better than us in this issue/matter, please do follow your instinct. If you love your job than anybody else please go ahead and at the same time please do not forget that nothing in our life is permanent. Think twice what to choose - Personal Life or Profession. Good Luck.

Q: Living separated from husband soon after delivery and he wants divorce

i am not sure whether its gonna lead tp divorce, but we are leaving separately. husband working abroad, me in India in mothers place with 3 year son. he hasn't sent any money from past one year. i also didnt ask as i was working. now i lost my job... due to lot problems thats has happened in the past, he doesn't want me. he wants only his child. i needs divorce which i am not interestd but if he still thesame, i mean all these days he has used extreme verbal abuse though not physical abuse.... there are lot of things that has happened against his wish, and he doesnt like my parents.

Advocate Dileep N answered
You are your destiny, so please decide what do you want in the interest of your child. Please do consult/discuss with your dear one before moving on this issue. As far as the custody of child below 5 years is concerned the mother will be given custody of a child and the father will be given visitation rights. Think rest if nothing workout as you wish.